urologist visit?

i am going or my first urologist visit regarding bladder/stress incontinence and i was wondering what exactly to expect. he is a male doctor and i am a female, so i was wondering i this was similar to a gyno appointment. basically what exactly he is going to do…

Very similar. A urine test, background questions (how long, how often, how much), what you have tried, how much it helped, then a physical exam of the area. Expect exercises, possibly an offer of medication (ask about side effects) and possibly discussion on surgical options. Hang in there!